One of my rituals at the end the year is asking myself these forty questions. This list is modified from a set of questions posted by coppermoss on Metafilter.

It usually takes me about a week to work my way through all of them. I find it to be one of the most valuable exercises to reflect on what happened, good and bad, and how I hope the year ahead will shape up.

What is more interesting than each individual answer are the trends that emerge after years of answering the same questions. I’ve shared this list with my family and closest friends, and always enjoy discussing answers as we reflect on the year.

This is first and foremost a personal exercise, so make it a tradition you can enjoy for years to come.


  1. What did you do this year that you’d never done before?
  2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions?
  3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
  4. Did anyone close to you die?
  5. What cities/states/countries did you visit?
  6. What would you like to have next year that you lacked this year?
  7. What date(s) from this year will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
  8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
  9. What was your biggest failure?
  10. What other hardships did you face?
  11. Did you suffer illness or injury?
  12. What was the best thing you bought?
  13. Whose behavior merited celebration?
  14. Whose behavior made you appalled?
  15. Where did most of your money go?
  16. What did you get really, really, really excited about?
  17. What song will always remind you of this year?
  18. Compared to this time last year, are you: happier or sadder? Thinner or fatter? Richer or poorer?
  19. What do you wish you’d done more of?
  20. What do you wish you’d done less of?
  21. How are you spending Christmas?
  22. Did you fall in love this year?
  23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?
  24. What was your favorite show?
  25. What was the best book you read?
  26. What was your greatest musical discovery of the year?
  27. What was your favorite film?
  28. What was your favorite meal?
  29. What did you want and get?
  30. What did you want and not get?
  31. What did you do on your birthday?
  32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
  33. How would you describe your personal fashion this year?
  34. What kept you sane?
  35. Which celebrity/public figure did you admire the most?
  36. What political issue stirred you the most?
  37. Who did you miss?
  38. Who was the best new person you met?
  39. What valuable life lesson did you learn this year?
  40. What is a quote that sums up your year?